You may not understand the words — after all, Shirley Setia is an Indo-Kiwi singer belting out a mashup of Bollywood songs in this short video — however, we trust this will help set the stage for an enchanting, romantic weekend; yup, even if it means by just starting with yourself.

Or, as Scott Brandon Hoffman recently wrote:

I see too many AMAZING women in the world that feel alone, isolated, unloved, unworthy, and have that nagging voice inside that says “I’m not good enough.” It’s a lie, it’s just the ego mind making up untrue stories.